Hearing it from the grapevine

Last year it was a big deal and caused a lengthy talk and many questions because I mentioned the 'thought' of extending my holiday to his sister before telling him. Now there so many things I get to learn when he is talking to other people on the phone... visiting another country soon, having an event to relaunch his business. I can see how easily people start having separate lives. This is sad actually, but we both know we are not in the right place and I don't know if we will ever be.. I don't see it happening especially after certain arrangements have been put in place.